Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Shanghai, Day 6

Today we went back to the fabric market for fittings. Dad got three suits, a sports coat, and three shirts made. They were absolutely beautiful and were all made in only three days! With relatively few adjustments, they will be great. However, I got a women's suit made, and it fit terribly. They are going to have to make so many adjustments, so we will need to go back again tomorrow before we leave on the cruise. It is a long ways down there, so I feel badly about that.

Anyway, in the afternoon we came home and hung out at home and watched a video, ate dinner, then got ready for the "big night!" Alison and I could hardly wait. I don't think John and George were quite as excited, but we had bought tickets for a huge production of dance and music highlighting the different Chinese dynasties. It was being held at the theater which holds about 500 people, right down by the Pearl Tower. Mike picked us up and we got there about 15 minutes early. We weren't worried about getting there too early because we had reserved seats. However, when we got there, we saw no one there. Could we have come on the wrong night? Looking at the tickets again, we knew it was right and then thought everyone else must have arrived even earlier.

We had a man who was walking by take a picture as we were going into the theater. He must have moved the camera because it's terribly blurry, but it's the only one we have. Once inside, we couldn't believe our eyes! There were probably only five other people there!A few more did arrive, but by the time the production started, we had only about 20 people in the audience. We wondered if we'd somehow chosen a dud of a show, but from the first musical gong to the very end, we were totally caught up in the production--one of the best I have ever seen!

I turned off my flash and tried to take pictures to let you experience a little of our magical evening! At one point, some of the dancers came and put scarves around our heads. George, John, Alison, and I clapped and clapped after each number in order for the performers to know how much we enjoyed them. At the end they clapped for us--they truly performed as if they had really filled the auditorium. Even the guys (George and John) enjoyed the wonderful evening!
Well, tomorrow we leave for our cruise down the Yangtze River. I don't know if I will be able to download the pictures while we are on it, so I may not add to this for a few days. Until then, bye bye!

Monday, March 31, 2008

Shanghai, Day 5

Today we went to the Pearl Tower which is the tallest point in Shanghai and third tallest tower in the world. You start in the first large ball, then travel by elevator to the second, and finally another elevator to the third, which is the highest. You can really lose your breath there. Of course you are enclosed inside--you can't go outside, but you really feel like you are on top of the world...literally. The tower is over l,550 feet high!
The thing that is so sad is how polluted the air is here. Otherwise, you could have seen forever. Still, it was so fascinating to see what we could. We could see where John works--the Bund Building, which is the building that looks like a flower on top. The Bund is the "financial district" of Shanghai. Also, we could see the current tallest building in Shanghai, with the newest one they are constructing right next to it. After the tour to the top, we saw a mock-up of it to show exactly how it is shaped. Then we visited the museum they have, which shows the history of Shanghai. You walk through streets from earliest Shanghai to today. It was wonderfully done with statues, sounds, and music, and took about half an hour to go through. The most interesting thing about the museum is that although many of the things have become modernized, many of the old techniques are still used today and in so many places.
We saw a wedding chair......which I highly doubt is used today, but it had 100 babies on it. Today they can only have one child unless they pay the government for more. The early rickshaws and bicycles are certainly still used. I don't know what the people would do without their bicycles! They load everything on them--they look like little ants with huge boulders on their backs. I haven't seen any horsedrawn carriages in the city, but probably would out in the country.
The pharmacist with all his little drawers, and pounding things looks just like the pharmacist Alison gets her "medicine" from today. Alison says she has seen women using those electrical wiring things on their heads in some of the shops. Wow! Now that is a hothead!
There was a mock-up of a whole opera hall. The Chinese sure do love their operas. We are actually going to a musical Tuesday night with music from all the dynasties. I am so excited about that.
One of the things that hopefully is not a factor anymore is the opium parlors. When they were, however, the parlors almost became this country's undoing. It reminded me of the wonderful Pearl S. Buck book of "The Good Earth," one of my favorite books. And of course, the thatched huts of yester-year are still seen in so many places--although many of them not even as nice as a thatched hut. There is so much poverty, but basically the Chinese people don't know anything else, and amazingly, they have made the best of what they have. They are a friendly, warm people, and we truly are enjoying getting to see them and their country.

We came home and George and I took Roscoe, the dog, and Preston on a walk. Everyone in the neighborhood knows Preston and were yelling "hi" to him. This neighborhood is made up of people from all over the world. I will take a picture tomorrow to let you get an idea of where John and Alison live. Each house has a bicycle or scooter in front, which belongs to the "helper" that comes in each day to work. They call these helpers, "IEs". (That's not the Chinese spelling, but that's how it is said.) No one is without their IE!

In the evening, we had a wonderful dinner, which Anna, the girl from the Philippines (who is John and Alison's IE) made. She is a fantastic cook! We then had Family Home Evening which Bracken was in charge of. He gave the lesson on "putting on the whole armor of God". Alison has little packets which everyone in the Branch prepared for visual aides and lessons. So each week the boys just choose which packet they want to give the lesson on. Bracken did such a great job--he got everyone involved and we all had a great time. Then it was time for bed and lights out. That's a wrap-up for the day! Bye for now!

Sunday, March 30, 2008

Shanghai, Day 4

Today we all got ready to go to church and we were off for the nearly one hour ride to church. I took some pictures of all the boys in their suits--don't they look darling!
The church is actually a large house where three branches meet. It is just wall-to-wall people...they need a real church building so badly! However, the government won't let them have one. They keep praying every day that the way will be opened for the government to say that they can either buy an existing building or build one. The church is ready to go when or if the permission is given. They only meet 2 1/2 hours instead of the three like all of us do because there just isn't enough space for everyone for classrooms after Sacrament Meeting. We enjoyed the meetings so much. What wonderful people there are here in Shanghai!
Before the nearly one hour ride back, we went over to get some lunch at Yu Gardens. It was packed with people! People everywhere! We are going back tomorrow so I will get more pictures. Little Preston was so tired and hungry, we had to hurry home. We ate wonderful Chinese dumplings filled with shrimp, pork, mushrooms, etc. They were divine! We took a family picture in our own private room at the restaurant which Mike the Driver arranged. He knows everyone in this city and has connections everywhere. There were lines everywhere into this restaurant, and we walked right in and went to our own private room. Out on the streets, the people were eating a whole frog just like they were eating cotton candy. Then I saw a pan, full of something, and had to stop and see what it was. One of the young workers said in perfect English--"baby chickens!" When he saw my reaction, he started laughing hysterically. They had their heads, feet, wings...everything but the feathers. I about died! To say that this is a cultural education is an understatement. You have to experience it to believe it! Well, that's a wrap for the day! Love to all - Mom

Saturday, March 29, 2008

Shanghai, Day 3

After a few rousing games of ping pong with the boys...
...we were off to Zhou Zhuang, an ancient water village which is about 90 minutes outside of Shanghai. (That doesn't mean we got there in 90 minutes with all the traffic on Saturday!) If that name doesn't sound familiar--try this: This is where the last part of Mission Impossible Three was filmed when Tom Cruise runs down the little streets of ancient shops and houses with all the canals crisscrossing like Venice! It was absolutely the most interesting little village, and we had a fantastic day.

It began with about 15 Chinese men waiting for us to pay to get past the gate. We wondered why, and then discovered they wanted us to ride in bicycle carriages for a "great price"! However, at the end of the day, we all felt taken because they jacked up the price about 10 times what they said they were going to have us pay, and many times WE had to help them up the hills! Oh well, I guess for most of the day and for about $24 for each bicycle pedaler, that wasn't so bad. It's just that compared to everything else that involves labor, I think they saw a bunch of Americans coming and got really excited!
It was quite a distance into the city through little farming areas and a huge waterwheel. We toured one of the wealthiest men of China's home who lived centuries ago. It wasn't much by today's standards, but it was very interesting. We finally got to the city where the canals were and boarded a boat with a little woman who paddled the boat with one huge paddle. She kept wanting to sing to us. She actually had a pretty good voice and she sang ancient Chinese songs to us. Finally, as we were about at the end of the tour, we realized why she kept asking us in Chinese (thank goodness Alison could understand her) if we liked her singing. Alison had kept telling her we loved it. Then we finally realized that was the way she got her tip. We couldn't wait until the end of the boat trip, or her boss would probably have gotten it. So, of course, we obliged and paid her right then.
She let Parker steer the boat and he did a great job. However, when George tried it, he rocked the boat and the reason you don't see the little lady in his picture is because she nearly fell in the canal! She let out a little yell, but finally got things back in order. The water police was yelling something at us, she nearly lost her job over the incident, and another canoe almost hit us, but we didn't understand a thing and we all had a giant laugh over the whole incident.
Walking through the streets really felt like Venice, too. The streets were so narrow with little shops on both sides. You could see the ladies doing their embroidering, painting the inside of glass containers (inside and upside down sometimes. How do they do that?), women stringing pearls, men making items of wood, women pulling silk and spinning, and little restaurants everywhere! The smells were horrendous! I took a picture of their delicacy--we couldn't figure out what it was. Well, it was barbecued pigs' hooves! Thank goodness, we had made sandwiches and rented a little table by the river to have our own picnic. Alison wasn't sure we could trust the food there, so we opted for that. You should have seen the Chinese people talking about us and some even coming up to see what we were eating. I guess they had never seen a sandwich before!
One of the most touching incidents was when a little women came up to George to sell him some postcards. They were 10 whatevers which amounted to about $1.25. George gave her 20 and she started trying to get out her change. She was quite crippled over with only three teeth in her whole mouth. She was so sweet and friendly. When George told her to keep the change by nodding "no" when she tried to give him the money, you would have thought he gave her a hundred dollar bill. She just grabbed his hand and smiled and smiled. The pictures really are special for that occasion.
After a stop at the factory that makes suits to fit Parker in his new Sunday suit and get one made for Tyson, we got home.
Alison's housekeeper had the baby all bathed, fed, and ready for bed, plus our dinner was all made, the house was immaculate, and our laundry was all washed and folded on our beds. Can we all bring one home? These people are amazing! Such hardworkers and John and Alison probably pay her more than most do for all this--$300 a month for six days a week!

Well, that's another wrap-up. Hope all of you are doing well. Please e-mail us and let us know how everyone is. We miss all of you and wish you all could be here.