Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Mele Kalikimaka

Each year at Christmastime, John and Alison have been so kind to invite us to be with their family at some exciting place in the world.  One year we were in France; last year in New Zealand and Australia; this year in Hawaii.  We were so excited when Kyle and Kim and their family were, also, able to come; plus, we invited my dad to come along, too.  We all had such a great time and only wished the rest of the family could been there, too.
Hawaii--a place of breath-taking scenery . . .




Beautiful sunsets . . .

Watching the grandkids have fun on the beach . . .




Where you can actually not be in a hurry and just enjoy each other's company . . .

Bug the grandkids . . .


Get to know each other better . . .

Hear about some of the most beautiful golf courses in the world . . .

See and feel (ouch!) strange sea creatures . . .

(After Jenna got a spine in her hand from picking it up, her mom pulls out the spine and then picks the prickly little guy up . . .)


(and walks him back to the ocean.  Yeh for Kim!  By the way, the hotel staff had her spray vinegar on the sting, but said urine was waaay better.  Jenna opted for the vinegar!  Hah!)


Watching the grandkids make fun sand sculptures . . .

Isn't Tyson just the cutest mermaid?

Seeing Brady's new skill--he is learning to swim!

Where the weather is always just right--not too hot, not too cold . . .






Enjoying the ultimate treat of coconut or pineapple ice cream inside the pineapple itself, or having a pina colata (virgin, of course!) . . .




Playing in the ultimate swimming pools . . .



Watching the coy fish which seem to be in every pond . . .

Marveling at every bush and flower . . .


Being amazed at how beautiful Christmas decorations can be, even when there is no snow!










Eating pizza together at the Flatbread Oven in Piae . . .

Playing with the Play Dough--which literally is dough--that they give to the children rather than color crayons . . .



Of course, Brady did his best BYU letters!  And we thought the dads were the ones obsessed with sports teams!  Hah!

Cousins having so much fun together . . .






Being in heaven having a shave ice . . .


and having a Grandpa try to "steal" it from you. 


Luckily Brady was a good sport and shared!


Laughing at the funny color the shave ice makes your tongue . . .




Enjoying the wildlife . . .

Seeing how coconuts actually grow . . .



Finding the place where the opening scenes of "Jurassic Park" were filmed . . .


Actually seeing a "Breadfruit tree" . . .


(I'd hate to have to live by "breadfruit alone."  These things are hard as rocks!)


Visiting the shops which included having a wonderful meal at Whaler's Village . . .


Of course the meal ended with one huge dessert with spoons for all . . .


Eating Japanese food at my favorite kinds of Japanese restaurant . .


where they cook it right in front of you. 



Observing how good George is getting with chop sticks.  I think he's getting his practice while going with some of the district people for lunch.  Teachers don't get time for such luxuries.  I want to go! 


Going downtown Lahaina and sitting under the third largest banyan tree in the world (largest in the U.S.) . . .





Taking little rests whenever anyone wanted to . . .


Eating every kind of shrimp you could think of at the Bubba Gump Shrimp Company . . .



From the waitress giving you a quiz about "Forrest Gump" trivia, to little sayings all over, it is such an experience to eat there.  (Notice above my dad's head:  "Mama says you can tell a lot about a person by their shoes." 


Observing the cruise ships come in . . .


And, of course, ending the whole experience with an ice cream dessert.  (Luckily, I only ate one spoonful!  I am proud to report I only gained 1/2 pound on this trip!!!) 



Playing games in the condo . . .Carter was joining in to learn some of the Wilde tricks!


Standing in front of what remains of the old fort made out of coral--so sharp!


After returning to the old banyan tree at dusk, seeing all the little lights they had strung in it . . .


In addition,  hearing all the birds who came in the evenings to the old banyan tree for a get-together.  It was so loud, you could hardly talk above it!



Enjoying the skills of the many surfers.  On this day, about twenty little guys who were probably eight or ten were out there--no parent supervision.  They had probably been doing this since they could walk! 



Laughing at the Santa being pulled in his sleigh by dolphins.  It was really cute--however, I had to take it as we were driving by. 


Enjoying the spectacular view from John and Alison's condo window . . .



Watching some of the Hawaiian artisans at work . . .


Loving how happy the grandkids were when they went to Kids' Club and won lots of prizes . . .




And then realizing with sadness that it was our last day in Hawaii, Alison made it more tolerable by scheduling a whale watch.  It was fantastic!  (Waiting for our ship to come in!)


This was definitely a trick--you had to time it just right so the waves didn't douse you and get you wetter than just your lower pant legs!




The weather was spectacular, the ride was great, now we just had to find some whales!







And sure enough!  We saw quite a number of whales--here three were together.  We told the guide we had seen whales in Alaska in August.  He said they called Alaska the dining room because they go there to eat lots of fish, then they come south to Hawaii to the bedroom where they find their mates and have their young.  (I'm quoting the guide!!!)


We even saw a couple of dolphins . . .


Here a dolphin turns over and shows his white underside.



A very successful whale watch and a whole lot warmer than when we went in Alaska, but both just as interesting!


Yes, Hawaii was all of the above, but mostly a time for renewing family bonds and showing how much we all love each other.  Thanks, everyone, for the wonderful time we spent together!

The Menkes Journey

 Menkes disease or syndrome is a disorder that affects copper levels in the body.  It reduces the enzymes that are necessary for bone, skin, hair, blood vessels, and the nervous system.  It is characterized by low muscle tone--which practically every part of our bodies are either a muscle or controlled by a muscle.  Menkes wasn't even a part of our family's vocabulary until March 2010 when our angelic little Cannon Rigby Copeland was born to Kent and Natalie.  Now, everyone in the family is learning more about this terrible disease--none more so than Kent and Natalie themselves. 



During our five days in Washington during the Christmas vacation, George and I more fully realized the devastating effects this disease can have on such innocent little children, how very difficult it is on the parents of a child with Menkes, and most importantly, how really precious these little children are to have been born into a body that they have so little control over. 



Cannon had a tube placed through his nose, down through his throat, and into his stomach when he was becoming so dehydrated because of being unable to swallow much anymore.  They put this tube in at the NIH in Maryland a couple of weeks ago, but it was only temporary.  So, off we went to Seattle Childrens' Hospital to have surgery for something more long lasting--a tube inserted directly into his stomach. 


As you can see, Menkes affects their respiratory system so badly, they seem continually congested and have trouble breathing.  The congestion is further complicated because they can't swallow.  This little child basically lives in a body where he can only move his head back and forth.  On the next blog, I will share the experiences we had with this little angel child in the Seattle Childrens' Hospital. 

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Christmasing the Whole Month Long!

This year was a little unusual in that we were able to watch Kevin and Angie's kids and Kyle and Kim's kids open their presents from us while we were out in Utah for Thanksgiving.  Then the first week of the Christmas break, George and I travelled to Washington (State) to be there to watch Kent and Natalie's kids (Ethan, Ella, and Cannon) open their presents. 






Ethan got little Cannon smiling with the seahorse which played soothing lullaby music when you pushed his tummy.  It always warms your heart to see Cannon smile.

No matter what Ella puts together, she seems to make it work!

Now, Ella becomes the photographer!

His mom can get Cannon to smile just by talking to him. 


We all had such a fun evening together.  It just tuckered little Cannon right out. 

A fun Christmas tradition I got to participate in (just because I got to go along), was Natalie and Ella taking wonderful Christmas cupcakes that Natalie had made.  They passed out Christmas cards with pictures of their family and cupcakes to all the great staff at Community Dental. 






 After spending nearly a week in Washington and having many other experiences which I will put in my next blog, we flew to Hawaii.  There we were able to spend a "Christmas" afternoon with John and Alison and their family, even though it was two days after Christmas when we saw them.  I'm not sure Hawaii is exactly in the middle of Florida for us and China for them, but it was a great place to meet up for the holidays!



Preston giving his grandpa a hug, thanking him for his present--so cute.


Tyson gets a kick out of everything.  He is always happy!


Parker by his Great Grandpa Rigby (who found a great place to keep track of his white hat!)


Bracken makes me laugh--he was pretty excited about his cologne from Abercrombe!

George and I were just the "carriers" for John who had ordered a wallet (made from snake skin) as well as a beautiful purse (the softest, fluffiest purse I've ever seen) from Coach for Alison for Christmas. 


John had it delivered to our house, and we brought it with us.  Alison was truly surprised!

John loves to read, so we gave him gift certificates to Barnes and Noble--no more pots or pans for him!  Hah!  (Private joke!)


John and Alison gave George some beautiful shirts and ties from Shanghai.  George loved them!  They gave me a new beautiful purse, too.  Sorry I didn't get a picture of myself with it.  I loved it, too!


For each of the families that couldn't attend the Bingo party, Great Grandpa Rigby gave them the CD collection of the Mormon Tabernacle Choir's Last 100 Years.  They loved it!
John and Alison's family with Great Grandpa Rigby.
Two beautiful Christmases on opposite sides of the Pacific--we loved being with each of the families we were able to enjoy at Christmas time.  Next year, Cameron, Craig, and Amy's families, for sure!