Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Last Graduation as a Teacher

One of the greatest events for a teacher is to attend graduation where you actually get to see the kids (and adults) who you have worked with accomplish their goal of getting their high school diploma (GED).  After working in the Adult Ed Program for nine years and with having about three graduations a year, I have been involved in nearly 36 graduations--all of which made me cry!  But this past December's was extra-special because it is the last one I'll be involved with as a teacher.

Susan Kostenko, the other teacher in the Daytime GED program who I work very closely with; Gary Smith, the Testing Director; and Me

 Loretta, a wonderful lady who had three children by the time she was 18--the last of whom was a special needs child whose mind was probably never older than a 6-month old and died when he was 15--was one of our speakers.  She is an amazing woman who came back to school after she raised her children, and now wanted to be a Special Ed Teacher.  She had both Susan and I come to the podium and thanked us for all our help.  

Then she presented us both with a bouquet of flowers.  It brought tears to my eyes because I know what she has to go through to get the money she needs--let alone give us flowers.

I told the audience that she is already enrolled in college.  Seriously, an amazing woman--oh, and did I tell you that she, also, has Cerebral Palsey which she told the audience about, so I'm not revealing anything that she didn't share that night.  So many obstacles, yet she was still there every single day for at least four hours each day working tirelessly through all of the work she needed to do.  



 Here is a better picture of Loretta, along with me, Sarah who is a current student who came to support the others who were already graduating, and Susan.
One of our older students who was so thrilled to become a high school graduate.  He has no car--just a bicycle that Susan helped him get.  He rides for miles a day to wherever he needs to go!  I could tell you stories about every one of my students.  This is the reason I have loved this job so much--to meet people who have overcome so much adversity to better their lives!

A special young lady who finally put her mind to it and finished!  I was so proud of her!

I helped both the boy and the girl finish, who are now boyfriend and girlfriend.
 
Another boyfriend and girlfriend who really got to know each other in our class.   Again, both have had major adversities to overcome, but they helped each other.
A really bright young man who has great things in store for him. 
 
George has attended every one of my graduations (except one when he had a board meeting) for two reasons:  First, because he is an administrator and helps to pass out diplomas, and secondly, to support me in what I do.  All of a sudden in the middle of the program, he went to the microphone and motioned for me to come up by him. 

Then Isaac brought me up a dozen long-stemmed roses from George.  Isaac did such a good job in front of such a big audience!


I didn't have a clue that George had this surprise dedication to me which wasn't on the program.  He became very emotional and told how much I loved teaching in the program and that this would be my last graduation. 




 Then the Principal of our Adult Ed had me say a few words.
Seriously, I was overwhelmed by all of the love shown me that evening!



The big event when the kids line up to go across the stage to receive their diplomas.  That's me giving hugs as they get ready to go across.

 Throwing their hats in the air--they are now graduates!


Yes, this is the part I will miss!  So many happy tears from the students--but even more by family and friends who sometimes wondered if this day would ever come!






I was so happy that Amy, Isaac, and Lola came to be part of this evening.  Jeff and Garrett had to go to a basketball practice, or they would have been there, too. 

Thanks to Amy, I had all of these pictures to post.


After the graduation, Lola loved going up on the stage . . .

 and she and Isaac pretty much enjoyed the refreshments they had.

But, the best part of the evening for Lola was helping to gather all the chairs. 
She just didn't quit!
While Isaac was playing on his game, Lola just kept on working, not wanting to leave.


Thanks, George, for the beautiful tribute you paid me and for the absolutely gorgeous flowers you gave me.

  I put the flowers George gave me along with the student's flowers together in this arrangement.  This truly was a special evening that I will never forget.  I am so proud of all the students' efforts through these past 26 years that I have been teaching, and that I could be part of their success.  This has made the hardships of being a mom and a teacher all worth it!

Friday, December 21, 2012

Welcome Home, Taylor!

We are thrilled that our oldest grandson, Taylor, has returned from a successful two-year Mormon mission in the Philadelphia, Pennsylvania Spanish Speaking Mission. 


To let you know a little more about missionary work in the Mormon Church, I quote our Prophet Thomas S. Monson:

"Every worthy, able young man should prepare to serve a mission. Such service is a priesthood duty—an obligation the Lord expects of us who have been given so very much. Young men, I admonish you to prepare for service as a missionary. Keep yourselves clean and pure and worthy to represent the Lord. Maintain your health and strength. Study the scriptures. Where such is available, participate in seminary and institute. Familiarize yourself with the missionary handbook  Preach My Gospel.

Sisters, while you do not have the same priesthood responsibility as do the young men to serve as full-time missionaries, you also make a valuable contribution as missionaries, and we welcome your service." 

Most young men in the past have left when they are 19 years old.  Recently that age was changed to 18 years old, while the young women formerly left at 21, and now may leave at 19.

During the two years spent on a mission, the missionaries not only teach those in the area they are called to about Christ, but they, also, do much service in the area.  Taylor was among the many missionaries and people in the area who helped with the clean-up after Hurricane Sandy.  

 Here he comes!  Family and friends await at the bottom of the escalator as Taylor comes in at the airport!  

 Taylor hugging his mom and two sisters.
The reason there are so many tears of happiness is that during those two years, the missionaries give up dating, television, and can listen only to appropriate uplifting music.  In addition, he/she may only call home on Mother's Day and Christmas.  They correspond through letters or e-mail with parents and other family and friends once a week.  They definitely go as boys and return as young men, ready to face the world and their next steps in life.  
Taylor with his mom, two brothers, and two sisters.  Kevin, his dad, was so much in pain, he had to just lie down in the back of the car to and from the airport.  He had emergency surgery the next morning.  He felt so badly that he couldn't enjoy the homecoming as he had imagined it would be for the past two years.

Yes, Taylor, the entire Copeland family is so proud of you!  All five of the Copeland boys, as well as the two sons-in-law, also, served two-year Mormon missions.  With 17 grandsons and 8 grand-daughters, we look forward to many more homcomings!  

Here is the video Angie had taken of the Homecoming. 
 
Elder Taylor Smart's Homecoming
   Warning: Be sure to have some tissues ready!
  

Thursday, December 13, 2012

The Joy of the Christmas Season

As the kids were growing up, I'll have to admit that the Christmas season was pretty busy--trying to decorate, bake goodies for the neighbors, get the Christmas cards out on time (which I never did), attend Christmas socials, get all the packages ready for mailing to Florida since we lived on the other side of the country then, let alone purchasing gifts for seven kids.   (No wonder we started going on a Christmas Vacation every year and only giving one or two gifts, along with the trip.)  I'm no different than any other mother who wants the Christmas season to be perfect, but I have to admit, I wasn't the best at being organized all the time.   

In my later years, I have tried not to get so stressed about being totally organized--in fact it is almost the middle of December, and I still don't have one decoration up!  That's terrible!  But, we have just been going to each of the kids' homes and enjoying their beautiful trees and decorations!  Since we are leaving in a little over a week and will be gone the entire Christmas vacation I guess I just don't want to take everything down.  (I must really be getting old!)  I am at least going to put a wreath on my door to let people know that I do love the Christmas season--for what it stands for, and the love our family has for the Savior!

Christmas in Orlando

 
 This past weekend, we spent time with Kyle and Kim and their family in Orlando.

 We were able to enjoy Brady's first basketball game of this season.  He was so excited, he wanted to get there an hour early!

 Even though he is only a 2nd grader on a 3rd-4th grade team, he scored two baskets on a very scrappy team!
 Brady goes hard all game.  Look how red his face is!  He pushed his hair back and saw how wet his hand was.
 Then, after lunch, we went Christmas shopping.

 This picture was hysterical!  We asked a guy in a little kiosk to take our picture so we could all be in it--He literally laid down on the floor to take it--he certainly got the whole tree, but nearly cut Brady out of the picture entirely!
 Since we had just purchased the presents, the kids were going to have their mom wrap them and put them under the tree, but Grandpa George and I got to open ours early!
 Boy, did I need a new crock pot!  My lid is broken as well as my dial.  Thanks so much, Kyle and Kim!

 George messed his hair up (on purpose) while modeling his new sweater that Kyle and Kim gave him.  I think he saw too many pictures of that look in the Abercrombe store when we were in there looking for what Carter wanted!  This sweater is perfect for our trip to Utah in about a week!
 What a fun day we spent with Kyle and Kim, Carter, Jenna, Brady, and Harley!  Thanks so much!  We would have loved to stay longer, but we had assignments had church the next day and needed to get back Saturday night!

 Isaac's Flag Football

This is the first year that Isaac got to play flag football.  He absolutely loves it!  George and I were able to go watch him (finally!) while Amy was in Dallas.  I loved how proud he was of his mouth guard!

Connor Makes First-Team 5A Golf Team as a Junior!

Connor - Third from left
This was the article in the Deseret News announcing those who had been chosen:

High school golf: Boys All-State golf teams
Deseret News
Published: Monday, Dec. 3 2012 3:55 p.m. MST
Class 5A
First Team — Austin Banz, West (medalist); Alex Herzog, Granger; Jacob Byers, Brighton; Nick Emery, Lone Peak; Dylan Chugg, Fremont; Berkely Stulce, Lone Peak; Connor Copeland, Lone Peak; Kalin Peterson, West Jordan; Rhett Rasmussen, Alta.

 This is a young man who absolutely loves golf and has worked so hard to develop his skills.
Way to go, Connor!  We are so proud of you!